If these incel's had any sense they would try to have an optimistic attitude and try to overcome and transcend the sexual urge or at the very least put it out of their minds so as to focus on developing and strengthening their personal qualities and talents, although perhaps only those of a higher quality are able to do this. As it would seem the instinct of the majority of mankind is to find a mate to pair up and settle down with. The rise of inceldom, to me, is another example of the male being separated from the female, of which Mani spoke of. Most incel's realize that they have been separated from the female for life, that they will never be able to attain or to feel the comforting warmth of a women, and the thought of this reality gives them constant psychological torture.