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« on: March 13, 2026, 09:05:44 pm »https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mIbvmI5PPPg
It says that those in Chiang Mai are willing to admit to being inferior on average than those in Cleveland.
Except it doesn't work when the British man is "black", despite having just as much money. So no, economics is not the explanation, and trying to claim that it is just diverts attention from the real problem of Eurocentrism.
More precisely, in "White" Saviour fiction written by Eurocentrists ("white" or "non-white"), "non-white" parents are portrayed as pressuring their offspring to marry the same ethnicity, while the "non-white" offspring are portrayed as struggling to marry a "white".
This.
https://trueleft.createaforum.com/issues/reproductive-decolonization/
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This is a very good point. Yet your failure to detect the Western-style misogyny ends up reinforcing your prejudice that "white" men are less misogynistic. As for who is actually more misogynistic, I stand by my theory that whoever is biologically higher in sexual dimorphism will tend to be worse:
https://trueleft.createaforum.com/colonial-era/colonialism-and-sexism/msg20514/?topicseen#msg20514
https://trueleft.createaforum.com/colonial-era/colonialism-and-sexism/msg21589/?topicseen#msg21589
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Probably the only exceptions are your offspring. (And even then not because they would have preferred to be entirely "non-white", but because they resent that you prevented them from being entirely "white".) This is how bad the Eurocentrism is.
I guessed it from your face shape.
At least you are honest about it. Now just voluntarily refrain from reproducing and you will be fine.
Exactly.
The reason is "white" men do not see you as individuals. They see you merely as members of a collective.
All locals in Japan speak Japanese. Yet far from all locals are popular. But anyone "white" who can speak Japanese will be popular in Japan? What does this alone say about how "whites" are viewed in Japan? And even a "white" who can't speak Japanese will still be average? In other words, a "white" who can't speak Japanese will be viewed as roughly equal to a local who can speak Japanese? What does this say about how "whites" are viewed in Japan?
Wait, so you are giving "whites" advice on how to become even more popular? I think we have discovered a new variant of psychological colonization which I will from now on refer to as meta-Eurocentrism
https://fp-roleplay.fandom.com/wiki/Metagaming_meaning
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The same guy who couldn't get a text back in Cleveland suddenly
3:093 minutes, 9 secondsbecomes a catch in Chiang Mai. The question isn't whether this phenomenon exists. It's what it says about all of us.
It says that those in Chiang Mai are willing to admit to being inferior on average than those in Cleveland.
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A man earning a modest salary in the US or UK, say $50,000 a year,
5:275 minutes, 27 secondsarrives in Thailand or the Philippines with what feels like monopoly money. His currency stretches twice as far, three times as far. He can afford apartments,
5:365 minutes, 36 secondsdinners, experiences that would be impossible back home.
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A British man described as a
5:595 minutes, 59 secondscreepy dude at home becomes a handsome gentleman in Manila. This isn't a miracle. It's economic calculation.
Except it doesn't work when the British man is "black", despite having just as much money. So no, economics is not the explanation, and trying to claim that it is just diverts attention from the real problem of Eurocentrism.
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For most Asian-American women, marriage to white men is considered highly advantageous and our families really encourage it.
9:149 minutes, 14 secondsIt's not like the struggle interracial love that our parents oppose because they want us to have Asian husbands.
9:209 minutes, 20 secondsAbsolutely not. No, it might have been that way like decades ago.
More precisely, in "White" Saviour fiction written by Eurocentrists ("white" or "non-white"), "non-white" parents are portrayed as pressuring their offspring to marry the same ethnicity, while the "non-white" offspring are portrayed as struggling to marry a "white".
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getting a white husband is a flex.
9:369 minutes, 36 secondsIt is something that you show off to your entire family. You talk about how your kids are going to have blonde hair and blue eyes even though they're not.
This.
https://trueleft.createaforum.com/issues/reproductive-decolonization/
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9:419 minutes, 41 secondsYour whole family is going to be so excited that you got an American husband. Yes, even if you are Asian-American, they will call only white people American. That is a thing.
9:509 minutes, 50 secondsThey always view it as a step up in life. Even if your white man is broke,
9:549 minutes, 54 secondseven if he treats you badly in front of everybody, they'll just say, "Why aren't you working hard enough for his acceptance? If you do more, then he will
10:0210 minutes, 2 secondsreally accept you and he won't cheat on you." With a younger Asian woman
10:0510 minutes, 5 secondsabsolutely not. And I know this view is so prevalent because a lot of divorced older Chinese aunties will swear off Asian men and only go for white men,
10:1310 minutes, 13 secondsspecifically Trump supporters.
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There's also this idea in our community that Asian men are a lot more misogynistic than white men, which is absolute [ __ ] The misogyny just looks
10:2110 minutes, 21 secondsdifferent. And if you are raised culturally Chinese, you will not be as attuned to the way that misogyny shows up in Western society and how it will show up in your marriage to a white man.
This is a very good point. Yet your failure to detect the Western-style misogyny ends up reinforcing your prejudice that "white" men are less misogynistic. As for who is actually more misogynistic, I stand by my theory that whoever is biologically higher in sexual dimorphism will tend to be worse:
https://trueleft.createaforum.com/colonial-era/colonialism-and-sexism/msg20514/?topicseen#msg20514
https://trueleft.createaforum.com/colonial-era/colonialism-and-sexism/msg21589/?topicseen#msg21589
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TLDDR, we are highly encouraged to do this and we will be praised by our families for the rest of our lives for marrying a white guy.
Probably the only exceptions are your offspring. (And even then not because they would have preferred to be entirely "non-white", but because they resent that you prevented them from being entirely "white".) This is how bad the Eurocentrism is.
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you'll be shocked to find out how many Chinese people worship whiteness, specifically putting mediocre white men on pedestal.
12:1412 minutes, 14 secondsI'm saying this because I used to be one of them.
I guessed it from your face shape.
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being seen with a white man really did make me special in the way that I probably wouldn't feel if I'm with an Indian,
12:3112 minutes, 31 secondsAsian, black, or any other man of color.
At least you are honest about it. Now just voluntarily refrain from reproducing and you will be fine.
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13:0813 minutes, 8 secondsAnother really sad thing to see is that in China 2025, you can still get colonial treatment. Like if you walk into a bar or restaurant where there are
13:1613 minutes, 16 secondsa lot of like westerners, you will notice how better they treat white people than they treat Chinese people.
Exactly.
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If you're an Asian woman, even more specifically a Filipino woman, you've probably experienced that phenomenon of white men
15:5215 minutes, 52 secondscoming up to you in public to tell you that they're with a Filipino person.
15:5715 minutes, 57 secondsThis is something that has happened to me throughout my entire life. Like literally male teachers,
16:0316 minutes, 3 secondspeople like camp counselors, like random people. And my cousins and I were actually talking about this at a restaurant. And at that moment, a random
16:1116 minutes, 11 secondswhite guy from another table came up to us and said, "My son's mother is Filipino." And then was like showing us pictures of his child. And like pretty
16:2016 minutes, 20 secondsrecently, I went to buy cookies in Uptown. And the shop owner was like,
16:2416 minutes, 24 seconds"Oh, and you know, my wife is Vietnamese." And I kind of looked at him like, "Okay, what do you want me to say to that?" And like I'm actually just so
16:3316 minutes, 33 secondscurious like what is the reason? What is the reason that people who date Asian women and who have children with Asian
16:4116 minutes, 41 secondswomen need to come up to other Asian women and tell them what is that?
The reason is "white" men do not see you as individuals. They see you merely as members of a collective.
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16:5016 minutes, 50 secondsOkay, I want to clarify this whole debate about whether white guy is popular in Japan or not. If you can
16:5716 minutes, 57 secondsspeak Japanese, you'll be popular. If you can't, you are probably just average.
All locals in Japan speak Japanese. Yet far from all locals are popular. But anyone "white" who can speak Japanese will be popular in Japan? What does this alone say about how "whites" are viewed in Japan? And even a "white" who can't speak Japanese will still be average? In other words, a "white" who can't speak Japanese will be viewed as roughly equal to a local who can speak Japanese? What does this say about how "whites" are viewed in Japan?
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Also,
17:1617 minutes, 16 secondspeople in Japan don't like guys who look unclean. So at the very least, please take care of yourself.
Wait, so you are giving "whites" advice on how to become even more popular? I think we have discovered a new variant of psychological colonization which I will from now on refer to as meta-Eurocentrism
https://fp-roleplay.fandom.com/wiki/Metagaming_meaning
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I've even noticed this as a black woman😂 yt men are way too excited to tell you they have an Asian gf or wife
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I'm really trying to understand the obsession with white men (I'm half german myself). Are these other groups of people really that weak? It looks really bad.
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White peoples are not white. They are red and pink.
